Group Sex

Looking for group sex? Read this first

Sometimes, two bodies in bed just don't cut it. You're looking to free your mind with group sex - and lucky for you, everything related this world is even sexier than the porn videos you may have watched on t before. Whether you’re green in the gills or a group sex aficionado, there’s always something new to find in your search for the ultimate experience.

So many ways to get it on

Group sex is kind of like the ocean – although you think you’ve seen it all in this world saturated with porn videos, you’ve barely scratched the surface. Ads and videos don't do the breadth of categories of lovin' justice, and if you're into group sex, there are a few common ways to get busy.

Threesome

More exploratory than videos would have you believe, a threesome is a rich tapestry. No two are alike. This group sex can feature three strangers, three friends, a triad, or a couple with another beau. Threesomes are great for many reasons, but best of all, when one partner gets tired while pleasuring one lover, she just tags the other in for backup.

Foursome

A confusing configuration to outsiders, the foursome is a boundless way to play in and of itself. Videos sharing everything related to foursomes would have you believe it's a free-for-all, but there are actually three common ways a foursome unfolds.

Same room

The most gentle introduction into the wet and wild world of foursomes, same room action is when two couples get together to have sex in one room, and maybe watch porn videos together, if they're into it. In same room play, you get an amazing view, some flirty vibes, and the thrill of adventure...all without actually leaving the comfort of the partner you love.

Soft swap

Ads and videos for group sex would have you believe it's all-or-nothing, but there is a middle ground: the soft swap. With this kind of light play, you mess around with the other couple, but when you start to reach your big finish, you return to your original partner.

Soft swaps work because the limits are whatever you four define them as. If y'all decide oral (and everything related to it) is the limits, then great. But if you decide that making out is the line, then a soft swap lets you test those waters freely. Either way, you're all four in enthusiastic agreement, making for one helluva time.

Full swap

For the most comfortable couples, a foursome means a full swap. When you see group sex in porn videos, it often makes a feature like this. Also known as swinging, this is when two couples switch partners to have sex with someone new.

Orgies

Of all ways to get down, an orgy is the ultimate style of free-form group sex. Bursting with different bodies, couplings, and thruplings, everything related to sex is on the table (except for taking videos; leave the video equipment in the car).

At orgies, all categories of lovin' are fair game. You may have sex with your spouse while a crowd watches (don't worry: their only videos being recorded are the ones in their memory), land a threesome with two cuties, or just watch diverse categories of group sex unfold while you pleasure yourself with some favorite toys. You may have watched videos of orgies before, but buckle up: the reality (and everything related to it) is a whole lot more thrilling.

So how do I find what I’m looking for?

There’s probably group sex happening down the block from you tonight. Thankfully, there are are a few different ways to find out where. The dot-com dating world and everything related to it is dying, but you can find free love on apps like Tinder, OKCupid, and Grindr. In your profile, be open about what you’re interested in (a naughty threesome with a new person).

Larger categories of group sex call for apps designed for everything related to it. Start on Feeld, a hookup app that is queer friendly and all about group sex.

The caveat? Feeld may be free, but it's not very popular if you live outside of a major metropolitan area. Don’t worry; there’s another place to look that may just have the answer to your sexy prayers. FetLife. This site is so popular that even the smallest of towns have happenings unfolding right under your nose. Don’t be intimidated by the people on there who are super experienced, or all the lingo you may not know. Just create a profile and be honest about what you’re looking for, then start browsing through other people, groups, and play parties. FetLife is so popular that it’s almost guaranteed you’ll find group sex in driving distance – even if you live in rural Mississippi.

Not into the categories of hard kink and everything related to the world of BDSM? For swinging and other categories of group sex, search the field at SwingTowns. Com.

Talk it out.

No matter how you play, you can’t have fun if you don’t communicate. The more people you get busy with, the more talks you’ll need to have. The best way to do this? Talk consent beforehand, while the clothes are still on. 

Get to know each person’s fantasies as well as things they’re not interested in – and accept their limits as they are. When you know about everyone’s limits and have a safeword established (like the stoplight system), you can focus less on fretting, and more on everything related to pleasure.

Start playing tonight

The perfect lovers aren’t far away. All categories of group sex (and every spicy thing related to it) are just around the corner, and with a little dedication and a lot of communication, your sexiest future is in your hands. Porn videos may have planted the fantasy, but you're about to make it a reality.

Got some tips on how to have great group sex? Share it in the comments!